Why Some Cultures Wear White to Funerals - and Others Wear Black

Black is the color most people in the West think of for funerals. But it is far from universal. This article describes some of the colors used to mourn, as they are described in published sources. Customs vary by region and family, and many modern families do not follow them strictly.

Is black the color of mourning everywhere?

No. In the West, black has long been the expected color, as Funeral.com’s history explains. Funeral.com says Japan is a reminder that “Asia equals white mourning” is too simple, because Japan emphasizes formal black.

Where is white worn?

In parts of Asia. A funeral guide reports that in Buddhist and Hindu countries such as China and India, white is seen as a symbol of purity and innocence, so all-white funerals are customary. Funeral.com says that, according to Britannica, funeral dress was generally white in ancient Chinese ritual contexts.

What about red and purple?

They depend on the place. Funeral.com reports that in parts of Ghana, red and black clothing can signify intense sorrow, especially after an untimely death. White can be associated with a good death and a celebration of a life well lived. It cites a museum description of Asante funerals, where mourners may be wrapped in red or black cloth. In China, by contrast, Willed says red is not worn at funerals because it is a color of celebration. Funeral.com, citing another funeral guide, notes that in Thailand purple can be reserved for widows.

How did black become the Western color?

Largely through the Victorians. The New World Encyclopedia says formal mourning culminated during Queen Victoria’s reign, and that her long grief over Prince Albert may have had much to do with it. See Why Do We Wear Black to Funerals? for the history.

What should I wear if I am unsure?

Ask. Funeral.com’s guide states that there is no single global rulebook for mourning colors, since they reflect history, faith, local custom, and the way communities show solidarity. It suggests simply asking the family whether they prefer a certain color. For guides to specific communities, see Chinese Funeral Traditions, Hindu Cremation and Mourning Traditions, and Death Around the World.