Memorial Benches, Trees, and Memorial Gardens

For families looking beyond a traditional headstone, there are several living and visitable ways to create a lasting tribute.

Can I dedicate a memorial bench somewhere other than a cemetery?

Yes - many cemeteries, parks, botanical gardens, and other meaningful locations offer a bench dedication program - typically for a fee that includes a small memorial plaque. This creates a place where people can sit and remember, often somewhere meaningful to the person beyond just their gravesite.

Are memorial trees planted at the actual gravesite?

Sometimes, if the cemetery allows it, but often memorial trees are planted in a separate designated area. Depending on the location and program, planting a tree in someone’s memory might happen:

• At the cemetery itself, in a designated memorial area
• At a park, botanical garden, or other meaningful public space
• On private family property

What is a memorial garden?

A memorial garden is a landscaped space specifically dedicated to remembrance - sometimes at a cemetery, sometimes at a place of worship, park, or other institution. These often include individual plaques, benches, or plantings, and can serve as a shared space for a community rather than just one family.

How much do these options typically cost?

This varies enormously by location and program - a bench or tree dedication is often less expensive than a full headstone, but costs depend heavily on the specific program and location.

Do I need a connection to a cemetery?

No - none of these options require a connection to a cemetery at all. Many families choose a location that was personally meaningful to their loved one instead, like a favorite park or a place with special memories.

Availability, costs, and specific programs vary by location — check with the specific cemetery, park, or institution you’re considering.